The Fisher Rebuilding Seminar was first created in the 1980s by Dr. Bruce Fisher. As he worked privately with people he realized that modern therapeutic methods weren't sufficient. So he began studying the issues to understand what people needed and what information and strategies actually worked.
He eventually simplified the issues in 19 steps for people to work through. Then, he organized them into a logical flow that anyone can follow.
There's no limit to circumstances and obstacles that arise in life, and there's very little that we can't help within regards to the emotional wounds of divorce. It has been said that divorce is the second most difficult situation in life. Dealing with it takes the right combination of support, information and guidance.
At the end of the day, heartbreak is heartbreak. It leaves no one untouched. Whether you are early in the process or divorced for 20 years the wounds need to healed. Nevertheless there are unique circumstances depending on where you are in the process.
When you don't know what is going to happen it can leave you in "no-man's land". What we know is that if you do nothing, nothing will change. So, if you want to reconcile then you need to focus on you first. We do that by giving proven tools that will help you understand yourself and your partner better. We also give you a way to take the emotion out of the equation so that you can peacefully and thoughtfully make the right decision and move forward with confidence.
Divorce has been referred to as having a bomb go off in your personal life. Everything is affected. Being with others that are going the same process gives you a network of friends that you can actually talk to. Plus you will get the tools and guidance to release the pain gracefully so that you can turn the page. People in the divorce process often feel very alone and our community of support gives you an instant support network that you can lean on.
Once the papers are signed there is no option other than to move forward. Sometimes the wounds are more obvious to people that have been divorced for months, if not years, to see that the wounds don't heal until they are dealt with. Divorcees often report that they are stuck in the 5 Obstacles to Letting Go.
In fact, a recent study showed that typically people feel WORSE 10 months after their divorce than 2 months after their divorce.
Often people want to be with their "own". They want to feel comfortable sharing and dealing with their healing with others that will understand. It's natural to find a tribe where you feel safe.
In our programs we believe that if we divide people into groups they miss out on perspective. They don't get to hear from the "other side". They reinforce their self limiting beliefs.
So, we encourage groups that unite, rather than divide. Often the right people show up in your class and they are exactly what you need, regardless of how they identify.
Heartbreak affects everyone. If you are human you have thoughts and feelings. You have an identity. You have relationships. These things don't change based on who you are with. We support people of all orientations, beliefs, and choices.
This program isn't about your behaviors, it is about being human. If you can align with that concept then we would love to have you!
Whether your marriage was long or short does not matter. People often say before they start our program, "my life is over", (even people in their 30s).
As you get older your priorities change. It isn't about the kids or what you will do for a career. It is about finding your true worth. It is about learning "what your soul needs". This is a paradigm shift, to be truly, authentically happy - regardless of age.
You don't have to do this alone. You aren't the only one going through this. With the right combination of community, coaching, and content you can dramatically rebuild your life. You can be happy and looking forward to the next chapter. How will you Rebuild?
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Hey there, friend! Going through a divorce is tough, and it's totally okay to feel overwhelmed. I'm here to tell you that you don't have to navigate this journey alone. Finding the right support group can make all the difference in the world. So, let's dive in and talk about why joining a divorce support group in Colorado Springs could be your game-changer.
Divorce is like riding an emotional rollercoaster blindfolded – you never know when the next loop-de-loop is coming. I get it; I've been there myself. The ups and downs can be exhausting, and that's where a support group steps in to be your stabilizer.
Most people that join our group are 35 and over, and it is for men and women. We find that as you get older the challenges we face are unique. As you get older you have been through more, experienced life, and our recoveries deserve a space that caters specifically to you. Age brings wisdom, but it also brings a different set of hurdles, and we're in this together.
Joining a support group isn't a one-size-fits-all deal. It's about finding a space where you feel understood and where the challenges you're facing are acknowledged. For those of us in this "divorce" club, that might mean connecting with people who've navigated longer marriages or dealt with the complexities of blended families.
Look, no one hands you a manual on how to divorce successfully. It's a learn-as-you-go process, and that's where the beauty of a support group shines. You don't have to have all the answers – sometimes, it's just about having a safe space to share your thoughts, fears, and victories.
There's a powerful comfort in knowing that you're not alone in your struggles. In our support group, I've witnessed participants sharing their stories, and the nods of understanding from others – it's like a silent assurance that says, "I get it, and I'm here for you."
Let's face it; divorce can be isolating. Friends and family might not fully grasp what you're going through. That's where a support group becomes your chosen family – a community that knows the ins and outs of divorce life, and they've got your back.
Legal and financial aspects of divorce can be like navigating a maze blindfolded. In our group, we bring in experts to shed light on these aspects. It's like having a cheat code to unravel the complexities and ensure you're making informed decisions for your future.
Divorce isn't just about paperwork; it's about reshaping your day-to-day life. From co-parenting to adjusting to a new living situation, practical advice from those who've been there can be a lifeline. I've seen folks in our group sharing tips on creating new routines and finding joy in the little things.
When it comes to finding the perfect group pay attention to what you really need. Do you just want to make new friends and move on, or do you need to heal and focus on your recovery? It matters. We offer both a support group AND a recovery group.
Many support groups are led by someone that is a volunteer and untrained. The Rebuilders groups are led by highly trained experts in divorce. Do you want someone that is guessing or someone that really knows how to help you heal? Anne Marsh is an expert. She has been leading divorce support and recovery groups since 2020.
Now, let me shine a light on what makes our group special. We're not just experts; we're a community of folks who've walked the path of divorce and come out the other side. We've got the battle scars, but we've also got the wisdom to help guide you through.
In our group, it's not just about discussions. We bring in guest speakers, organize workshops, and create an environment that fosters both healing and personal growth. It's not just a support group; it's a holistic approach to divorce recovery.
Meet Elaine, a member of our group who found solace in sharing her journey. "Joining this group was like finding my tribe. I no longer feel alone, and the advice I've received has been a game-changer."
And there's Hank, who was struggling with intense anger. "I was drowning in my emotions, but the support and guidance gave me tools to let it go and focus on what matters."
Ready to take the plunge and join a support group that gets it? Reach out to us today! Whether you prefer virtual sessions or face-to-face meetings, we've got options to suit your comfort level. Shoot us an email or give us a call – we're here to make this journey a little bit easier for you.
So, there you have it – a peek into why finding a divorce support group in Colorado Springs is worth considering. Remember, you're not alone, and there's a community waiting to welcome you with open arms. Take that first step, and let's navigate this journey together. You've got this!
You’ve already come a long way. Let’s reach the next level together.
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